Family or Career????

Aiyah.. forgot to talk about something... 

I just chat with one of my school mate before... and we were talking about.. family?? or career??
When i was studying, i remember that those who pursue their career (especially woman) would be either single for their whole life, divorcee, or widow, especially those who work in hotel line... Their working time would be very very long and only suit those i mentioned above...
 
My friend just went back to hotel line and she is single too.. When i asked her, actually she prefer family as well.. The problem is.. she hasn't found the right one yet.. and with her situation now, it's probably difficult for her to find one.. She has lots of things to do and spend lots of her time.. hm... 

Again, as woman, we need to balance our life... Career, Family, and our own time to do whatever we want (rest, travel, study, etc..) really not easy compared to man... Anyway.. it 's always be my plan.. to balance my life.. but the most important for me is still family... I still can have someone to rely on although no job.. but even though i got job, i may not have someone to rely on.. and lead a lonely life.. and I don't like that.