Saturday, November 28, 2015

Get the right mindset to overcome life!

Time flies. November is going to end very soon and the last month of the year is awaiting at the corner. Once it's over, it will be another new year and automatically our age will be increasing by one year without us realizing it!!!

Throughout the year we have gone through many ups and downs. This year though, it's not exception for me. The first half of my year was filled with many doubts and disappointments. But after that, it's followed by many dreams came true, almost non-stop, even until now ^^

These days I was quite free and often met up or chatted with friends. And usually, when chatted with those who were employed, many would convey their disappointment towards their work or their colleagues (especially their direct superior). They even thought of changing job once they got the AWS and bonus. And those who were unemployed, they would also share their fighting through their job applications, interviews, and so on.

Ok, that's about the working age people. Those who were still studying, they were these days fighting with their final exams. Some paper were challenging, some were even much more challenging hehehe...

Some didn't encounter the above problems but, they had problems with relationship, or sometimes for not having the relationship that they were hoping to have.

At the end of the day it just gives me one conclusion, that we, human being, will never be free from problems. It will always be there. But how we are going to face the problems, that will depend on how we are going to take our action.

Quote by Rhonda Byrne (Source:

As my personal opinion, I'll say, face and accept your problem positively. Perhaps, start it with gratitude feeling. E.g. for those who have problems with their work or colleagues - be grateful that you are employed and receiving salary every month; Those who haven't found a suitable job yet - be grateful that you are still surviving with your saving until your dream job is found. At the mean time, relax, take a break, and do things you always wish doing but can't, due to having too much work or overtime.

Be grateful quote by Rhonda Byrne  (Source:

For those who face challenges with too many things to study for exams - be grateful that at least you have a chance to get an education and enrol the school. Many people in the world may not have this privilege as they have to earn money for their living, even in such a very young age.

Quote by Rhonda Byrne  (Source:

For those who have problems in relationship or don't even have one - well, with the above examples, you should by now be able to think what to be grateful for, shouldn't you?

Get a right mindset and you can overcome it all! ^^

Sorry if I have to repeat this again and again, but it is true, that life is short. We will never know if we will still live in a moment even after reading this post. So, take your problem in life easily, always think the bright side of life, of what you have, and not what you don't have. Be grateful and content always! And very soon, you'll have happiness right in front of you without you realizing it!

So, if you're facing any kind of problems and challenges in life that make you sad and unhappy, think the above advice and get yourself down to a nearby shop to get yourself ice cream, chocolate, a sweet looking cake and any kind of dessert to get a sweet bud into your tongue and believe that it will soon sweeten up your life! Have a try and good luck!!!

Hehehe... Wish everyone be happy always! - Overcome Life :)


Rupa KK Gurung said...

"...they had problems with relationship, or sometimes for not having the relationship that they were hoping to have..." is this for me :P hehe

'We, human being, will never be free from problems. It will always be there. But how we are going to face the problems, that will depend on how we are going to take.' Ya this is true... Your post made my day.
Beautiful day ahead !!
Keep smiling^^
HAve fun la.

Thinley Jamtsho said...

I have a Zen anecdote for you.

Once there was a man who wanted gold. So, he went to the market.
He went directly to the stall of the gold dealer, and snatched the gold and ran off. The police caught him and asked "Why did you snatch somebody's gold, that also in front of so many people?"
The man replied: "At the time when I snatch the gold I didn't see the people. I only saw the gold."

It helps to focus, like the man who wanted gold saw only the gold.

Tashi Chenzom said...

Thank you for such an inspiring blog. True that we all go through lots of problems in life and its very less people who can take it positively.

Keep inspiring me mam and have a nice weekend!!

Kipchu Kipchu said...

Gratitude and optimism - additional angles to view our day to day ordinary lives and making them extraordinary. True are your words. What a complete post! And such an ending.
Lets get our mindset right and create our life just the way we want. Thank you for sharing your wonderful thoughts and blessing ours.

Gyembo Namgyal said...

You provided inspirations to all those who have problems in their lives right now. You rightly said that, no matter in what kind of situation we might be, there is always something to cheer about and look forward to. I hope this will find reason for optimism to all those going through low phase in life.

Rima Reyka said...

Hahaha... I didn't exactly refer to you la dear Rupa :P I'm glad that this post can help you brighten up your day! Beautiful day ahead to you too dear! Take care! :)

Rima Reyka said...

Thank you Thinley for reading this and share your Zen anecdote with us! Have a wonderful day la! ^^

Rima Reyka said...

It's my pleasure Tashi :) I'm glad if this post can inspire you. Even without reading this you'd know how to react, mo la? ^^

Study well and all the best for your final exams la! Take care! :)

Rima Reyka said...

Thank you Kipchu for your comments la! Just a little advice and share the beauty of the life's Secret by Rhonda Byrne to everyone who read this post. Hope it's useful and can lighten up their burden in mind :)

Wish you a wonderful weekend and all the best for your final exams la! Take care! ^^

Rima Reyka said...

Thank you Gyembo Sir for dropping by to my blog and leave your comment! I appreciate it so much!

And yes, I too hope that those who are going through low phase in their life can face their challenge in a better way and positively. Let's hope!

Wish you a wonderful day la! Take care! :)

Tashi Chenzom said...

Thank you la and yes...I may know how to react but a constant reminder is required most of the time to humans...hehe.
Take care too!

Choki Gyeltshen said...

This post is an inspiration for me! Thanks for sharing you views.

Rima Reyka said...

Thank you Choki and I'm happy it's inspiring you. May you spend your time wisely and happily as always for the rest of year. Take care and all the best! :)

Yeesi7 said...

So true. Right state of mind is required to lead a healthy life. It reminded me of Dalai Lama's saying as soon as I saw the post title.

Flora said...

And already December, 5th day of summer started in Melbourne! I really don't realise what have been up to in year 2015... It just gone!
Another encouraging as well inspiring blog! You are really 👍👍👍!!

Rima Reyka said...

Thank you for dropping by Yessi! Hope you are doing well out there and having great summer time with your loved one! Take care and hope you have applied the right state of mind to overcome your life!


Rima :)

Rima Reyka said...

Yeah, it's getting hot there I bet? Wish you had a great 2015 with your loved ones and more great time ahead! Take care! :)

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