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Tuesday, April 28, 2026
Growing older, growing wiser
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As we get older, we should have experienced things that younger people not experienced before. We have seen more things surrounding us, experienced more events not only internally, but also externally (worldwide affairs).
We have met, known and lost more people throughout that journey of life.
Our mind should have grown and aim to be a better person than we used to too, not the other way around.
By middle age, we should aim to have been wiser, knowing what is right and wrong.
Letting go have become easier, especially the wrong people, toxic relationship / friendship, mistakes we made in life, etc.
From the dictionary:
Wise - (adj.) having the power of discerning and judging properly as to what is true or right
Wiser - (adj.) having or showing understanding and good judgment: having or showing deep knowledge or learning.
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| As you grow older... (Pic source: Google.com) |
I happened to read the article from quotesilove.com and below is what they posted about growing older. It is meaningful and let me share it with you in this blog:
1. Age may bring physical ailments, but it also brings emotional resilience. You learn to face adversity with grace and strength, knowing that you have the wisdom and experience to overcome any obstacle.
2. As you get older, you learn to let go of things that no longer serve you. You start to prioritize what is important and focus on what brings you happiness.
3. Age may slow you down physically, but it can also sharpen your mind and deepen your understanding of the world. You become more insightful and compassionate, and your wisdom becomes a beacon of hope for those around you.
4. Growing older is a journey of self-discovery. It is about finding your true purpose in life and living it to the fullest.
5. Life is a journey, and each year brings new lessons to be learned. Embrace the journey, take risks, and always keep an open mind.
6. Growing older means gaining the confidence and courage to speak your truth and stand up for what you believe in.
7. Age is merely a number. What truly matters is the knowledge and wisdom you accumulate along the way. Embrace your experiences and let them guide you towards a life well-lived.
8. Growing older is a gift. It is an opportunity to learn from our mistakes, to grow, and to become a better version of ourselves.
9. Life is a journey, and each passing year brings with it a new chapter. Embrace the unknown, welcome change, and always strive to learn and grow.
10. With age comes the courage to be yourself. You stop caring about what others think and embrace your uniqueness. Your authenticity becomes your greatest strength.
11. As you grow older, you become more aware of your mortality. But rather than fearing it, you embrace it and live life to the fullest. You know that every day is a gift, and you do not want to waste it.
12. Age is just a number, but wisdom is timeless. Embrace the knowledge and experience that comes with each passing year.
13. Age is just a number, but wisdom is priceless. It helps us to make better decisions, has deeper relationships, and live a more fulfilling life.
14. Growing older is like a fine wine; you become more refined, sophisticated, and complex. Your experiences and knowledge add depth to your character, making you more interesting and engaging.
15. Wisdom is not something that can be taught; it is earned through life experiences. As you grow older, you gain more of it, and you become a valuable source of advice and guidance for those around you.
16. With age comes the realization that life is too short to waste on trivial things. You learn to prioritize what is important and live a more meaningful and purposeful life.
17. The best thing about getting older is the wisdom that comes with it. You start to see the world in a whole new light.
18. Every year is a new opportunity to reinvent yourself and become the best version of yourself yet.
19. Growing older is a privilege denied to many. Cherish every moment and make the most of your time on this earth.
20. Age may bring physical changes, but it also brings emotional growth. You become more self-aware.
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21. The wisdom of age teaches us that true beauty comes from within. It’s about being kind, compassionate, and loving towards yourself and others.
22. Growing older is a privilege denied to many. Take the time to appreciate each year, celebrate your successes, and never forget the lessons you have learned along the way.
23. Life is a journey, and each year is a new chapter. Write your story with courage, passion, and purpose.
24. Age is just a number, but attitude is everything. Keep a positive outlook on life and you will never feel old.
25. Growing older is not about slowing down but about continuing to live life to the fullest. Embrace your passions, try new things, and never lose your sense of wonder.
26. Age is not a measure of success; it is a reflection of your journey. You may not have achieved everything you wanted, but you have gained invaluable lessons along the way that will serve you for a lifetime.
27. Age is not a barrier to new experiences; it is an invitation to explore the world in new ways. You have the wisdom to appreciate the beauty around you and the courage to try new things.
28. As you grow older, you begin to realize that the most valuable currency you possess is time. Spend it wisely, invest it in experiences that matter, and cherish every moment.
29. With age comes a deeper appreciation for the simple things in life. Take time to savour the moment, enjoy the small pleasures, and find joy in the everyday.
30. The secret to growing older gracefully is to embrace the changes that come with age and to never stop learning, growing, and evolving.
31. As you age, you realize that the most important things in life are not material possessions but the people you love, the memories you create, and the impact you have on the world.
32. Aging gracefully means accepting your imperfections and embracing your unique beauty.
33. Age is not a barrier to success but a testament to experience. Use your wisdom and knowledge to achieve greatness and to inspire those around you.
34. Age is an opportunity to try new things and explore new passions. Do not be afraid to take risks and step outside your comfort zone.
35. Age is an opportunity to reflect on the lessons you have learned, the experiences you have had, and the people who have touched your life. Take the time to honour your journey, and celebrate the wisdom you have gained along the way.
36. You are never too old to set new goals and achieve your dreams. Every day is a new opportunity to make your life exactly what you want it to be.
37. As you grow older, you start to appreciate the beauty of imperfection. You understand that flaws make us human and that embracing them is the key to true self-love and acceptance.
38. As you grow older, you become more empathetic and compassionate. You understand the struggles of others and are better equipped to offer support and guidance.
39. Age is not just a number; it’s a reflection of the experiences, wisdom, and lessons you’ve gained over time. Every wrinkle tells a story, and every grey hair is a badge of honour.
40. The beauty of ageing is that you become more comfortable in your own skin. You start to realize that your imperfections make you unique and beautiful.
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| As you grow older... (Pic source: Google.com) |
41. Growing older is not about losing your youth; it is about gaining wisdom, self-awareness, and inner peace. You learn to let go of the things that no longer serve you and focus on what truly matters.
42. Growing older is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the ride and make the most of every moment.
43. Growing older is not a curse but a gift. Use this gift to live the life you have always dreamed of, and to inspire others to do the same.
44. Growing older can be tough, but it also comes with a newfound appreciation for life’s simple pleasures.
45. Life is too short to waste time worrying about getting older. Embrace each new year as a chance to grow and learn.
46. As you age, you realize that life is a precious gift. You start to appreciate the small things that bring joy and meaning to your life.
47. Age is just a number, but wisdom is a gift that only comes with time. Embrace your experiences, learn from your mistakes, and share your wisdom with the world.
48. As you age, you start to realize that the things you once thought were problems were actually blessings in disguise.
49. Growing older is like a treasure hunt; each day brings new discoveries and insights. You become more curious and adventurous, and your thirst for knowledge never fades.
50. Growing older means gaining a deeper appreciation for the people and things that truly matter in life.
51. Age is not a limitation; it is an opportunity to learn, grow and evolve. With each passing year, you become more resilient, adaptable and wiser.
52. Life is too short of taking yourself too seriously. Laugh often, and do not be afraid to be silly.
53. Growing older is a privilege, but it is also a responsibility to leave the world a better place than you found it.
54. Wisdom is not just a product of age but a result of experience. Embrace each new challenge as an opportunity to learn, grow, and become wiser.
55. You may be getting older, but that doesn’t mean you have to act your age. Stay young at heart and enjoy every moment to the fullest.
56. Growing older does not have to mean growing bored. Life is full of adventures waiting to be had, no matter your age.
57. Aging gracefully means embracing the changes that come with time and finding beauty in every stage of life.
58. Growing older means embracing your quirks and flaws and learning to love yourself just the way you are.
59. You may be getting older, but that does not mean you have to slow down. Keep pushing yourself to new heights and accomplishing your goals.
60. You are never too old to learn something new. Keep your mind open and your curiosity alive.
61. As you grow older, you begin to realize that time is your most precious resource. Use it wisely, live in the moment, and make every day count.
62. Aging gracefully means finding joy in the small moments and celebrating life’s milestones with those you love.
63. Do not let anyone tell you that you are too old to do something. If you have the passion and the drive, there is nothing you can not accomplish.
64. Growing older is like climbing a mountain. It may be tough at times, but the view from the top is always worth it.
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| Life starts in the middle age (Pic source: Google.com) |
65. Age may bring physical limitations, but it also brings mental clarity and emotional stability. You learn to control your thoughts and emotions, and this newfound wisdom brings peace and tranquility.
66. Growing older is like a beautiful tapestry; each thread represents a different experience, and together they create a masterpiece. You become a walking work of art, full of depth and richness.
67. Growing older is like climbing a mountain. It may be challenging at times, but the view from the top is worth it. You gain a new perspective on life and appreciate the journey more.
68. As you age, you start to realize that the things that once seemed important are not as important as you thought. Focus on what truly matters in life.
69. Life is a journey, and with each passing year, you gain valuable experience and wisdom. You may not have all the answers, but you have a better understanding of what truly matters in life.
70. As you age, you realize that time is precious. You start to value each moment and make the most of the time you have left.
71. With age comes wisdom, and wisdom teaches us to live in the moment. It helps us to appreciate the beauty around us and to find joy in the simple things.
72. Aging gracefully means finding a balance between taking care of yourself and enjoying life to the fullest.
By now, you have probably learned that aging is not just about getting old, but it is also about gaining wisdom, experiences, and living a fulfilling life.
So go ahead, take that trip you have been putting off, try that new hobby, and make the most out of every moment.
You are never too old to set new goals and achieve them. Keep learning, keep growing, and keep inspiring those around you with your wisdom and experience.
Enjoy the second phase of the journey of your life, more confidently and with much positive spirit with you! You can do this!
Saturday, April 11, 2026
Peace and gratitude
Monday, March 30, 2026
Women in Mid 40s
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| Menopause (Pic source: Google.com) |
Hey hi, how have you been?
It has been a while since the last time I posted here. Time flies like crazy. In few more years, I would enter the middle age that I never thought I would be one day. Hahaha...
Talking about this, I want to share what I have been through while passing these years. I would not shy sharing all these because one day, all young ladies (readers) would also one day reach this phase, if you are lucky enough, of course! :D
I wanted to share my menopause experience here. I have it already now. It considered quite early but still under normal age category. I had the pre-menopause moments for about two years before the period had actually stopped.
The most obvious symptoms was irregular periods. In the beginning, the period duration became shorten where usually it took 4-5 days each, had become 2-3 days. The flow had also reduced.
Slowly, the frequency had also lessen From the regular once a month, it had reduced to once every 2 months, 3 months, and even it stopped for almost a year.
The other symptom that appeared was hot flush - a sudden feeling of warmth in the upper body. In my case, it was happened mostly at the back upper part, below the neck area.
I heard about it before, but when I experienced it myself, it still felt weird and funny :D
Brain fog and forgetfulness. You know, it was when you went somewhere like kitchen, room, toilet, etc., and then suddenly you could not remember what you were going to do by entering those places. Or when in your mind you could picture one thing but suddenly you could not remember "that particular word" of that thing. Or you just lost focus and harder to concentrate.
Well, we thought it was because it was parts of getting older, but apparently, that was symptoms from pre-menopause as well.
Some people would be having difficulty to sleep. Not to the stage of insomnia, but it was not as easy to sleep as before. Luckily so far I have no such thing unless I had a very high dose of caffeine after lunch time or took a nap in the afternoon. And I had to practice a simple mediation before slowly dosing off to the dreamland.
The infamous thing from perimenopause is mood change, which includes easy to get irritation, sometimes could feel depressed too as our hormones changed. Especially when you were alone.
When I told the doctor that I had my menopause already, one thing she asked me if I did any additional measure in taking care of my bones. The lack of ovarian estrogen after menopause could cause a significant loss in bone strength, placing women at higher risk of osteoporosis. Therefore, I needed enough dose of Calcium and vitamin D taken into a daily basis. As I could not be exposed into the sunlight, I had to take vitamin D supplement into my diet.
I was also advised to do light exercise as not to exert the joint parts too much. So instead of running, I could do walking on a daily basis and light aerobic or Zumba few times in a week.
Food was also playing a big part to lead a healthier lifestyle. You could observe what you get in your basket each time you buy your weekly shopping.
I just shared with my sister-in-law recently on how lucky we are for staying in Singapore as the Singapore government really takes care of its citizens by always encouraging us to take healthier food (less salt, less sugar, less oil campaign), do at least 150 mins exercise a week by providing us free exercises that we could book through the Healthy 365 apps, providing exercise places, grounds and parks accessible in each neighborhood housings for free or with lesser/ subsidized fees, free checkup for men and women above 40s, sometimes free in-body check up (to check how much muscles are in our body parts) and providing us advises on how to improve them - by exercising and taking more proteins in our food, and many more.
The high cost of hospital bill has also become the deterrent for us to prevent sickness and improve our health being.
I mean, how many countries in the world would bother to care to its citizens health like that?
Maintain the moderate BMI is still difficult for me, so far, I have always fallen in borderline overweight category. But I tried my best to balance my meals and eat more healthier food.
Most importantly, keep positive mind everyday. It is not easy, but we can do it. Especially morning time. It is the most important time of the day to have a positive mind.
Getting old is part of process of living as a human being. We have to accept it that nothing stays permanent. Wrinkles, white hair, loosen cheeks and eye bags, slow metabolism, weaken joints and bones are something we need to face soon or later.
We cannot avoid it all (unless you go for face-lifting surgery, or Botox, of course). But by growing old, we can focus on how we could grow wiser, calm in time of crisis, and maintain peace in mind despite whatever thing that happen worldwide - high oil and gold prices, wars, natural disaster, economic crisis, and so on. Also spend our money and time wisely in everyday life.
There are more and more people in their 60s, 70s and 80s in Singapore these days. Soon, I too will be there. Hope everything will be in smooth journey and most importantly blessed with good health so I still can travel and visit more countries in the world and do what I love doing.
So, one day at one time. Focus on what is there at the present moment. Just get ready of what will come ahead. Cheers and wish everyone be happy and healthy always..... :)
Wednesday, August 27, 2025
Talking with stranger
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| We're just strangers with some memories |
Many people do not like to talk with the stranger. Especially these days, when scammers are everywhere trying to empty your bank account.
Let me share you about my story.
I am an introvert. But since I often go out alone, travel alone, eat alone, shop alone, even often work alone, I realize that I have been talking more often to strangers these days. Sometime I even find it myself bizarre why I was doing it. Hahaha... :D
Well, let me share with you some of the occasions on why I talked with them.
My hubby works even on weekend. So I usually spend one of the weekend alone. One day I cycled to the newly opened hawker center in my neighborhood area. It was my first time visiting it and not knowing on what to eat. I ordered food based on my craving plus teh tarik, and managed to get a two-seat table in that crowded place.
I was sitting alone. But since the place was really crowded, one lady asked if she could sit on the empty seat next to me. I said, "sure!" almost immediately. Because, why not?
She was wearing apron and carrying lunch box plus water bottle filled with various Chinese herbs. Just by seeing her, I knew that she must be one of the staffs working there, going to have her lunch break.
Well, I am an observant freak. Hahaha... :P I often observe people in my quietness. I also like to read people's body language.
At first she took her mobile phone, scrolling, listening and sending voice message. It is very common to see people having their meal and focusing their eyes on mobile phone, as a sign that they do not want to be disturbed, which I do myself occasionally too.
Then soon after, she kept her phone into her pocket and started focusing on the steamed brown color bun, which was filled with vegetable, ham and egg in the middle, some kind of Chinese burger, but I was 100% sure that it was not sold anywhere in Singapore, which means, it was handmade.
I saw her eating and her minds seemed just occupied with some little thought but nothing serious or big in particular. Her eyes were blank and looking at afar, seemed not to any particular thing.
Then I guessed, it would be no harm to make a small talk with her, just to let her forget about her daily chores for a while, and answer them just as herself truly.
So I started the conversation by asking if she was working in one of the stalls here.
By appearance, she looked older than me (like in her 50s, with ahjumma style hair and dressing, a bit plump, and not too old). She was a bit surprised that stranger asked her questions, but soon, I could feel she became feeling relaxed and responsive well to my questions. Especially when we came from a similar background.
We both were coming not from Singapore, but have stayed for many years and settled down here. We were married with one kid.
From our conversation, I managed to know where she lived (not in detail, of course), when she started moving house in this area, how old was her son, which school he studied, which year, what major, what he liked doing at home, at what age he came to Singapore, whom she married with, where she worked (current and previous job), how long, what she did, nationalities of the current bosses, etc.
It was raining so I did not have to rush as I needed the rain to stop before I continued cycling, while her lunch break would take around 45 minutes to an hour.
The person looked approachable and I wanted to know how they felt (at that point of time) about their lives here in Singapore.
I mean, Singapore is such a small country but so many people have come here, to study, to work, to get married, to retire, and so on. There is no harm in finding out about other people's lives, not having particular reason in it. Just out of my curiosity.
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| Stranger talks :D |
Another time I chatted with stranger was when I was queuing to check in for my flight. This time, a young Chinese lady, a student, who was having a short holiday, wanted to continue her vacation in Hong Kong.
We were chatting high and low, up and down. She was so eager in sharing about her life. She studied in Beijing and I told her I used to study there too. When she asked me when, I told her that it was almost two decades ago.
She was shocked!!! She thought I was in her age from the way I dressed, talked, laughed. And when I told her my son was in 20s, she was even surprised!!! Hahahaha.... she must be shocked that all that while, she was talking with ahjumma, and not a young student like her :D Lucky for her that by then, we had reached to the check-in counter. After that, we both went to our way separately. :D
Since I work only with my Boss, I often go for lunch by myself. And I found out that I would chat with a stranger who share the table with me. Sometimes, I asked them how much they paid for the food that they purchased. Sometimes, I asked whether their food nice or not, whether it was worth buying or not.
Sometimes, when queuing for the food, when there was a 1-for-1 promotion, I even shared the promotion with the stranger who was standing behind me. First, I checked with her first if she wanted to buy 1 or 2. When she said 1, then I would ask if she wanted to share the 1-for-1 promotion with me and we shared the cost. Since it was half price, of course she said yes.
Later on, after she paid be through Paynow, I would be able to see the name. When the name seemed like Indonesian name, I would ask if she was from there and more chat would continue until we both received our order and leave in separate way.
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| Quote by Aristotle ("Man is a social animal.") |
When I was travelling alone in Shanghai, I went to the Shanghai restaurant selling the famous Michelin Xiao Long Bao shop. There were few dishes I wanted to try. But if I ordered too many, for sure I could not finish them. I ordered two dishes and took my seat.
After ordering, one lady who queue behind me, came to the same direction towards my table. Since she was alone, I offered her to share the table with me.
Then we started to talk. I mean, I started the conversation. Hahaha...
From there, I knew that she was Japanese, coming to Shanghai for short holiday, and travelled alone, just like me. We talked until our food came. She only ordered 1 basket of xiao long bao. So, since I ordered two dishes and could not finish, I asked her if she wanted to share my dumpling soup.
She must have read the food review before coming too and was willing to try. So, it was great. We could share more dishes and not let the food wasted.
There were more occasions talking with stranger. When travelling, I liked talking with the Grab driver (especially on the long journey). Most of them were local and knew the country really well. That was why many Singaporean taxi driver was famous for being chatty while driving their passengers (although many were complaining about the government :D).
I talked to stranger while shopping at supermarket too. While picking fruits, choosing vegetables, and so on. Sometimes I could get one tip or two on how to choose a good quality of food. Which or where to buy, and so on.
Talking to stranger. They were not necessarily becoming a friend, but it could fill some part of your time and share your life with others, so they not becoming lonely or feeling alone.
It does not mean I become a busybody or kaypoh too. Because for me, it was all just a 'hi' and 'bye' thing, a passing through moments that became memories in seconds. A reminder for myself, that I was not alone. Who knows what you do might help the other party one day.
Anyway, just wanted to share this bits and parts of my life with you here. If you also have an experience talking with stranger like me, and love doing it, you can share it in the comment here as well.
Wednesday, June 11, 2025
L I F E
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| Keep going!!! (Pic source: Google.com) |
Recently I watched the Korean drama titled 'The Haunted Palace'. One of the character was Gang Cheol, the ancient serpent spirit (Imoogi) that fell into the earth and after more than hundred years later, he inserted his spirit inside the human body that had just passed away.
Only after he entered into the human body, he then could feel the five senses that we human have, such as: taste, smell, hear, touch, and see. When he was living as the dragon spirit, he did not feel these five senses so in the drama, he seemed overreacting when he first time tasted the plain porridge as a human being. His mind was jumping around, and so happy with it. He was even craving to taste more food that human usually has, and his favorite was the traditional Korean confectionary (hangwa), which also included the pumpkin taffy (yeot).
Then slowly, his other senses like see and touch, made his heart beating so fast, which then he realized that he had fallen in love with Yeo-Ri, whose body he needed in order for him to ascend to the Heaven. This feeling struck him in awe and he often cursed the human who felt all these senses. Because of it, many times human did something wrong (like enjoying being drunk and eating too much which caused harm to the body or sickness, killing people out of greed or jealousy, raping, and so on).
With only these scenes, it struck me as well because as a human being, these five senses have been part of our way of living and I could imagine how Gang Cheol felt. It was like, being a human but having those senses separated from the body. He did not think much about sadness, happiness, and so on because he lived with different purposes in life and being focus with it.
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| Do what you can :) (Pic source: Google.com) |
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| Be kind as you can (Pic source: Google.com) |
Monday, April 21, 2025
What apps to download before going to China from Singapore
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| Shanghai Oriental Pearl Tower |
With the advance of the technology, I would say we are very lucky to be able to live in the world these days. The last time I went to China was in the end of 2018 and I could not use the Chinese payment apps like WeChat Pay and Alipay. I had to use cash to pay wherever I went. And sometimes, I would not be able to purchase something (like using the vending machine to buy drinks). I was reluctant to use my credit card to pay too, since the exchange rate given by the bank was awful and there was other charges for using it.
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| Trust Visa Debit/ Credit Card (Photo source: Trustbank.sg) |
First of all, if you live in Singapore, the digital bank and cards like Trust and YouTrip are the two great assets that you must have beforehand, because they offer the online currency rates - not far from what you usually check from XE.com, there is 0% foreign transaction fee (not even the 1% Visa charges), and also no annual card fee to pay. You manage all your money using the apps on your fingertip.
For the Trust saving, you can earn up to 2.75% p.a. interest rates on your first S$800k depending on how much you put your money in and earn up to 11% savings on groceries and food at Fairprice Group when you spend on your Trust debit card. You can read more details in here. You can also apply their VISA credit card to earn up to 15% cashback on your preferred category and unlimited 1% cashback on all other eligible spend. Read more details here. If you do not have one yet and interested to get one, you can let me know and I can give you a referral code and get yourself S$10 Fairprice e-voucher as a lovely start :)
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| YouTrip Mobile Wallet link with Mastercard (Photo source: You.co/sg) |
As for YouTrip, you can sign up using your local Singapore mobile phone. It is a multi-currency mobile travel wallet with linked Mastercard and money changer in the app. There are currently 12 wallet currencies in which you can do the money change without having to go down to money changer. The currencies available as for now are: SGD, MYR, AUD, USD, EUR, GBP, JPY, HKD, NZD, CHF, SEK, and THB.
You can first top up your SGD money using PayNow or to link your bank account for easy transfer. You can also top up using a Visa/ Mastercard but there will be 1.5% fee for Visa Credit. Fees waived for all Mastercards and Visa Debit.
After topping up your SGD into the account, you can then start the exchange between those 12 available currencies and keep your money there. But when you want to use it overseas, you can pay in any currencies (not only those 12). For example, you can use it in Korea, Taiwan, Indonesia, and so on. They will convert the currency automatically and deduct it from your SGD or other currency balance that you stored. Just tap your card (they will issue and send you a physical card once you sign up), and key in the passcode on the credit card machine for a more secure transaction. And Voila! If you do not have one yet and interested to join, you can let me know too. I will send you the referral link and get yourself S$5 on your account upon confirmation and acceptance :)
With YouTrip, you can also transfer money overseas or send to other YouTrip User. And if you want to take your SGD money back into your bank account, you can do the withdraw through PayNow or transfer back to your local bank account. So it was up to you how you want to manage your money. You can link WeChat Pay and Alipay with similar cards like Wise or Revolut too, if you already have one. Once you have them, you can link the above cards (no more required to have a local China bank account and credit card) with WeChat and Alipay.
I post this blog because more people are travelling to China recently due to more available direct (some budget) airlines between countries, the easy access to pay using the Apps, available translation apps (I use Google translation apps so far), available maps App using English (fyi Google map in China does not give an extensive locations and accuracy, some even are misleading), convenient to travel using public transport such as Metro, bus and ferry, with the downloaded Metro apps that were linked to WeChat or Alipay - just scan the QR code at the entry and exit gate, more world class entertainment parks, such as: Universal Studio in Beijing, Disneyland in Shanghai, Pop Mart theme park or Pop Land in Beijing, Legoland in Shanghai (opening in 2025), and so on.
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| Chinese apps to download |
So, from my recent trips to Shanghai, I did some research before going, and here are the list of the apps I downloaded before going:
1. WeChat
If you have not had the account yet, you can sign up using your local mobile number. Then you can click here on how to link your credit card with WeChat Pay. I linked my YouTrip Mastercard with WeChat Pay. You need to submit your Passport information as a verification, otherwise you cannot use it.
2. Shanghai Metro apps (linked to WeChat pay). Once you download the no. 1, next you can download the metro apps. In my case, I downloaded the Shanghai Metro app - Discover, Mini Programs, Search Shanghai Metro App - the red color one - and registered. To use it, you need to turn your bluetooth on, then it will produce the QR code, which you can scan when entering and exiting the metro gate. The fee will be charged into the credit card that you linked with in your WeChat Pay.
3. Alipay
This is another very useful payment apps in China, it works similar like Google pay, but with more services. You can click here for more information on how to register your Alipay. Same thing, you need your passport information for verification plus your photo. Then add your foreign credit card under the Bank Cards. For Alipay, I link it with my Trust Visa card.
The apps can be set in English and there is the floating translation button that you can click too for easier translation from Chinese to English while using the app.
4. Shanghai Metro apps (linked with Alipay)
Once you download the Alipay, I search e.g. Shanghai metro - I choose Shanghai Metro Daduhui - registered, saved it, and could find it under the My Apps (My Mini-apps). I can copy this apps button into my mobile home as well for easy use.
Same with the no. 2, you need to turn on your Bluetooth when scanning the QR code at the entrance and exit gate. It is much more convenient than buying the metro ticket manually at the ticket machine. It will save you a lot of time in taking public transport.
5. Didi Travel (linked with Alipay)
If you go in larger group with elderly or children, you might want to travel around using hire transport service like Grab and Gojek. In China, you use Didi. You can download the mini-app in Alipay or WeChat for Didi service. Follow the instruction on how to use it. I did not try it during my trip in Shanghai as I travel alone and metro is very convenient public transport to go anywhere.
6. Amap
It is very useful map that you can access during your trip in China. You can enter search using English and Chinese language. Click 'Route' to find out how to get there - by driving, metro or bus, cycling, and walking. Just turn your location button on and it will give you various alternative to reach your destination :)
7. Disney Resort
As I visited Disneyland in Shanghai, I downloaded this app beforehand. Here, you can purchase your ticket based on your needs. There is a Super Early Bird One-Day price ticket if you know already when you are going to visit and choose it to get discount, at least 15 days in advance, or Early Bird One-Day price ticket at least 10 days in advance. In fact, so many options to choose. Weekdays and weekend prices are different, so if you visit many days in Shanghai, I recommended you to choose weekdays than weekends.
You can pay the fare using foreign credit card. However, with additional 3% charge. In this case, I tried other alternatives such as: Klook, Traveloka, and Trip.com. At the end, I bought it through Trip.com as it offered the best price among all.
With Disney Resort app, you can use it during your stay in Disneyland. You will use the map function the most. There, you can see how much is the waiting time for each rides. How to get there from your location (you need to turn on your location button) and how many minutes to reach. Where you can have your lunch, snacks, or dinner. Where to shop if you need to get something to bring back home, and so on. They also tell you the schedule of the parades of the day, and toilet locations.
There are more apps you can download based on your needs during your travel in China. I myself is a newbie and not very well in reading Chinese words. It will be better if you have friends from China who use more Chinese apps and have time to explain to you what to download and how to use.
Actually I would love to use their share bike to go around Shanghai by myself, but with the limitation of the area/ location knowledge, plus not knowing much Chinese words, taking metro is more than good to go. But I was lucky enough being able to cycle around in the middle of the Shanghai city with the guide and help of my local Shanghai friend who is familiar with the road there. He also helped me to unlock the bike - using 2 different bike apps from 2 different companies :)
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| Meituan share bike in Shanghai |
The traffic for bikes have lessen up these days unlike more than 2 decades ago. Now people take more metro, bus, electronic motorcycle, didi, or car to travel around. But it is good for me and they still have bike lane for bicycle and motorcycle users. Many road was covered with big trees at left and right, giving cool shades for riders like us. I was very lucky experiencing it and hope can experience it more next time :D
Oh ya, for mobile access, you need a SIM card that allows you to access Google, what's app, Facebook, or Instagram. In Singapore, you can purchase your physical China SIM or e-SIM from Lazada or Shopee SG. I purchased the ICC China Mainland 3-30 days Unlimited Data SIM card (China Mobile Network). It worked very well during my stay. Just insert it (if you buy physical card) when you reach there, turn the roaming and mobile data on, and you can start using it.
I hope the above info can help you a little in preparing your visit to China. And wish you a wonderful trip to China soon!!! :)
Wednesday, March 05, 2025
Bukan Siapa Siapa (Nobody)
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| Bukan Siapa Siapa (Nobody) by Ajahn Brahm |
Thursday, January 16, 2025
Reminder post for a great year ahead!!!
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| There are always things to be grateful for :) |
When we die, our money remains in the bank, untouched. Yet, while we are alive, we often feel we don’t have enough to spend. The truth is, when we’re gone, much of what we worked for remains unused.
Consider this story: A wealthy business tycoon in China passed away, leaving $1.9 billion in the bank. His widow eventually married his chauffeur. Reflecting on this, the chauffeur said, “All along, I thought I was working for my boss. Now I realize he was working for me.”
The reality is harsh but simple: It is more important to prioritize health and well-being over accumulating wealth. Life is about making the most of the time we have, not hoarding what we may never use.
A high-end phone? 70% of its features go unused.
An expensive car? 70% of its speed and gadgets are unnecessary.
A luxurious home? 70% of the space is rarely used.
A wardrobe full of clothes? 70% of them are never worn.
At the end of a lifetime of earning, 70% of it often benefits others. The challenge, then, is to cherish and fully utilize the 30% that truly matters.
Live wisely and intentionally:
Go for regular health check-ups, even if you feel fine.
Drink water often, even if you’re not thirsty.
Let go of problems, even when they seem overwhelming.
Be willing to compromise, even when you’re right.
Stay humble, no matter your wealth or status.
Practice gratitude and contentment, even with less.
Take care of your mind and body, no matter how busy you are.
Invest time in people you love and cherish.
Simple rules for a fulfilling life:
Love deeply. Pray often. Spend time in reflection.
Eat mindfully: Breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince, and dinner like a pauper.
Live with energy, enthusiasm, and empathy.
Read, dream, and smile often.
Sleep well, exercise daily, and take quiet moments for yourself.
Avoid gossip, grudges, and hate—they waste precious time.
Forgive freely and focus on the present.
Call your family, make others smile, and give generously.
Spend time with both the young and the old—they teach us different lessons.
Do the right thing, even when it’s hard.
Remember:
Life changes, and so will your challenges—nothing is permanent.
Start each day with gratitude.
Happiness is an inside job; don’t rely on others for it.
Embrace simplicity, laughter, and love.
Life is short—live it fully, love unconditionally, and cherish every moment.
P.S. Copy and paste this from Facebook :)
Hope you learn a thing or to and live your life wonderfully this coming year!!! Happy New Year 2025!!! Love, hug and kiss :)
Tuesday, December 31, 2024
Last day of 2024
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| Thank you to you know who you are :) |
After finishing a bowl of mee hoon kway yesterday afternoon, I opened a message from my Boss. She said if there was nothing, I could close the office for half day and tomorrow too. Wow!!! I was really grateful and thankful for having such a wonderful Boss. I finished whatever I was doing, informed her to approve the payment, packed my stuffs and went back home.
And today, it was the last day of the year 2024.
What would you do on this day? Some went to office (mostly half day) to work. Some had to work overtime (not that they wanted to, but it was just one of the busiest days of the year). Some went shopping. Some went to religious places like church, temple, mosque, and so on, to pray and to thank their God for the passing 2024.
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| Quiet morning doing what I love doing :) |
As for me, this morning I chose to spend my time at the coffee shop ordering a cup of kopi-o and my favorite hazelnut munchi pancake (the filling was just like the one inside Ferrero Rocher chocolate). I brought the book that I currently read to the coffee shop too. I ate, drank, and read at the same time. I sat down at one corner and quietly enjoyed my morning :)
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| "Intermezzo"by Sally Rooney |
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| Peaceful, calm, and quiet library :) |
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| My 2025 resolutions |
I jotted down my 2025 resolutions on my journal too. I have already had in mind places i wanted to visit this year and I want to spend solitude time more or otherwise with people whom deserve it. So, wish everyone a wonderful year ahead, with whatever goals, resolutions and plans of yours. It is all different for each individual but whatever it is, I really wish you all a smooth sailing of year 2025, may you be blessed with good health and tons of happiness ahead!!! Cheers..... :)
Sunday, November 17, 2024
Cheers to 20 years, Overcome Life!!! :)
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| Cheers!!! :) |
Just realised now that this blog has been with me for 20 years now. Wow!!! Look how far I have grown and how much memories and moments I have made! It is incredible!!! It is really like a diary, that I can open anytime, to see what kind of event I went through, what mood I experienced, what songs I listened to, what lesson I learned, and so on.
Life has been good for the past 20 years and of course it is without hiccups in between. Many things I want to forget, many things I still want to do too. I am still grateful for everything, especially for the good health (15 years of SLE and still going strong), only that I prefer a slow life these days with handful of people who are close to my heart.
Could not believe how many countries I have been to for the past 20 years and that was the drive of living my life to the fullest while my legs still can walk.
I know one day I will be gone from this world. But as long as I live, I will still write what I want to write, express all what I feel. Just as when as I want, have feeling and have time.
Time to sleep now. Once again, cheers to 20 years reeverking.blogspot. Thank you for being there for me always and all the readers (if you are still there to read my non sense post or just to see beautiful photos that I share).
Wish everyone be blessed with good health and happiness. Take care and smile always :) Hope there will be more decades to go in this blog journey. Cheers.... :)))
Wednesday, November 13, 2024
Where to go and what to do in Karakol, Kyrgyzstan
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| Holy Trinity Cathedral (Russian Orthodox Church) - Karakol, Kyrgyzstan |
1. Visit the Russian wooden Orthodox church called Holy Trinity Cathedral. The building was constructed in 1894-1895, replacing the earlier church that was destructed by the earthquake. During that period, this church was initially built as a chapel for the Russian military personnel. Later on, after the 1917 revolution, it also served as a school, sport hall, theatre, and even a coal store, before it was briefly returned as a church. By 1961, again it was not used as church until the collapse of Soviet Union in 1991.
The church is beautified with flowers and trees at its surrounding, plus the snow capped mountains view as the background. Inside it was quiet, calm and peaceful. You could grab some wooden souvenir or accessories to bring home afterward.
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| Dungan Mosque - Karakol, Kyrgyzstan |
2. Visit Dungan Mosque - a mosque built and designed in 1904 by Dungan, the Chinese Muslim, without a single nail and looks resemble like a Buddhist temple. If you visit it in September, the place will look more like a garden with so many beautiful roses beautified the area. Fruit trees like pear, apple, and walnut would be full of fruits too!!! We were lucky that the staff plucking some of the apples and pears to be shared with us. I had them for breakfast next day and it was really wonderful!!! They were juicy, sweet and crunchy, most importantly, organic and grew with TLC (tender loving care) :D
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| Issyk-Kul Brand Shop - Karakol, Kyrgyzstan |
3. Shop local products at the Issyk-Kul Brand Shop - a store that sells natural, high quality handmade products made by local community, such as: honey (Kyrgyzstan is famous for its pure white honey and varieties of honey from Kyrgyz mountains), wool products (bookmarks, wallet, hat, shawl, doll, slippers, bags, etc.), various local fruit juices and jams made of sea buckthorn, barberry, raspberry, walnut, etc., soaps, lip balm, hand cream, paintings, various handcrafts, etc. You can try some of the products before deciding to purchase or not. The store commits to support the local communities with OVOP - One Village One Product concept - to produce, sell, and earn from their products sustainably. You can find more information about the shop here.
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| Dinner at Dungan Family House - Karakol, Kyrgyzstan |
4. Have dinner at Dungan family house, tasting the dishes that Chinese Muslim would eat on their daily life. We were given a private room where 7 of us could peacefully enjoy our meal. They served 9 different types of dishes plus laghman (handmade pulled noodle - similar with Chinese lamian) as the base to eat the dishes with. The owner's son served us the food personally, explained their cultures and traditions, also origins with us. He could speak a little Chinese too as he went to learn Chinese in China himself, so that he could communicate better with his guests (many Chinese or Chinese Asians guests came and dined at his house). It was a great experience and for us, we could finally have something Chinese in our food after almost a week of mostly Central Asia food on our menus. Hahaha... Something spicy and delicious :D
5. Visit Karakol local bazaar. Unfortunately it had closed by the time we reached Karakol and we did not have time to visit the next day as we still have many places to go. But if you have more days to visit, it will be a great experience to see how it looks like and what types of things they sell over there.
We continued our journey to Bokonbayevo village and on our way, we passed by many places, which I will cover next. Stay tune :)
Tuesday, October 29, 2024
Kyrgyzstan - Land of Kyrgyz
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| Statue of Manas and Kyrgyzstan flag in Bishkek, capital of Kyrgyzstan |
Bordering with Kazakhstan, China, Uzbekistan, and Tajikistan, Kyrgyzstan is a landlocked country blessed with Tian Shan and Pamir mountain ranges. Bishkek is the capital and also the largest city in Kyrgyzstan.
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| Issyk Kul Lake, Tian Shan mountain range and Kyrgyz flag reflections :) |
It is also part of the Silk Road with Issyk Kul Lake as one of the stopover (a land route for traders, merchants, and other travelers from the far east to Europe) and was inhabited by succession tribes and clans, such as Turkic nomads, Mongol empire, Manchu-led Qing Dynasty of China, Dzungar Khanate, Russian empire, Soviet Union (USSR), and finally independent in August 31, 1991.
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| Beautiful nature of Kyrgyzstan :) |
The word 'Kyrgyz' - in Turkic word means 'we are forty', which refers to the 40 clans of Manas, a legendary hero who united the forty regional clans into a single country back in 9th century.
Ethnic Kyrgyz is the majority of its over 7 million population, followed by minorities of Russian, Uzbeks, Ukrainians, Germans, Tatars, Kazakhs, Dungans (Hui; Chinese Muslims), Uighurs, and Tajiks. Languages spoken are Kyrgyz, Russian, Tajik, Uzbek, and Uyghur.
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| Beautiful Dungan Mosque in Karakol, Kyrgyzstan |
Kyrgyz people used to raise livestock and engaged in farming. But since late 20th century, the country had become a source of nonferrous metals. There has also an increase in gold mining activities, plus they are rich in coal and some petroleum and natural gas.
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| Herding in Kyrgyzstan |
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| Pasture in Kyrgyzstan |
It is said now 50% of Kyrgyz population that lives in rural areas - primarily farmers - are growing rice and vegetables in the area (doing agriculture), and also raising dairy cattle to reduce poverty, improve their income inequality, increase food security, and also to generate employment
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| On our way after crossing Kazakh and Kyrgyz border :) |
On our way after crossing Kazakh - Kyrgyz border, we passed by many nomadic herder going back home after grazing wild vegetation in the area. Usually riding horse and accompanied by dog, at least two persons managed their hundreds of cattle, sheep, and horse. It was such a beautiful scenery, at least for me, who lives most of my life in city. And I still miss to watch them walking on the road in front of us :)
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| Lush pines, greeneries, horses, living in harmony - Kyrgyzstan |
The country landscape is amazingly beautiful!!! Mountain ranges, lakes, valleys, rivers, deserts and plains offer beautiful natures wherever you go. Their famous tourist destinations include Karkara Gorge, Djetty Oguz Gorge (7 red stones formation "Broken Heart" and "Seven Bulls"), Barskoon Gorge with its cascading waterfalls, Skazka Canyon also known as "Fairy Tale" consisting of limestone clusters, bulging sandstone from the colorful soil, and so on.
Will cover them more on my next blog post. Keep on reading and following my blog :)







































