Friday, November 08, 2013

Risks Happy People Take Every Day by Positive Thoughts

Quote by Positive Thoughts

"You don’t need everyone to like you.  You are a piece of art.  Not everyone is going to see your beauty.  Ultimately, it’s YOUR opinion of yourself that matters, and if someone doesn’t like it, forget about them.  Stop being a people-pleaser all the time, because when you go around pleasing everyone but yourself, you are the one that gets hurt.

Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth.  It’s their loss, not yours.  So be careful not to give so much of yourself to others that you end up completely losing yourself.  In the end you will know who truly loves you; they’re the ones who respect you for who you are, and no matter what, they stand by your side.  Surround yourself with these people. 

As you grow up, you will learn that even the one person who wasn’t supposed to ever let you down probably will in some small way.  You will have your heart broken probably more than once.  You too will inadvertently break some hearts, so remember how it felt when yours was broken.  You’ll occasionally argue with your closest friends.  You’ll blame new loves for things an old one did.  You’ll cry because time is passing too fast, and you’ll eventually lose someone you thought you couldn’t live without.  This is what happens when you open your heart and mind to the greatest joys of life.

Chuck Palahniuk once said, “The only way to find true happiness in life is to risk being completely cut open.”  Nothing could be closer to the truth.  Anybody who is capable of living and loving is bound to get hurt at some point, but that’s a risk that’s well worth the reward.  The result is a life filled with honesty and love.

So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you’ve never been hurt.  Don’t be afraid that your days will end in pain, be afraid they will never begin with honesty and love.  Life is too short to let it pass by.  Open your heart and mind and live it to the fullest!"

Reblog from Positive Thoughts

Wednesday, November 06, 2013

Lunch walk to Boat Quay in Singapore

Recently the weather was quite nice in the afternoon. The sun would play hide and seek with the clouds resulted in not so hot weather, which enabled me to have a good walk after having my lunch for the remaining time off my lunch break.

My working place is located in Clarke Quay area. It's a very good location. It's just one MRT station away from Chinatown and Dobhy Ghaut or around 10 mins walk to Chinatown. It's located along the Singapore River connecting this place to Boat Quay,  which is also only around 10 mins walk from Central in Clarke Quay. 

There were two underground bridges that I had to pass to reach Boat Quay and both were painted beautifully by artists who were engaged to do the community murals.

The first picture below was done by artists led by Social Creatives, the Not-for-profit Arts Enterprise, while the second one, in red, white and black, was created by separate art groups called RSCLS.

Below are the both creations taken from the two underground bridges. 

Underground murals in Clarke Quay
Underground murals in Boat Quay

Both murals had stories related to Singapore. It's beautiful,  isn't it? 

Once you reached Boat Quay,  you would pass by lots of restaurant that sells different types of international food. There are Chinese hot pot, Japanese dining,  Italian, Asian Thai, Indonesian, Korean,  French fine dining,  Seafood heaven,  Indian,  Irish, Fusion, Cantonese, Mexican,  Peranakan,  etc.

Boat Quay during lunch time

During lunch time people who work nearby would dine there. There are quite number of expat and foreigners occupying the Western and European restaurant. 

While at night, this is a place where tourists go and have their dinner there. Other than many varieties of food available,  the main attraction is the al fresco dining ambience and almost every restaurant has a sitting area facing the beautiful Singapore River,  made the diners feel relaxed. 

There are quite number of pubs available too and usually very crowded after office hours (especially on weekends).

If you love to eat fresh seafood,  there are few restaurant selling fresh seafood where you could pick the seafood that you want directly from the tank. It was all with superb quality,  and of course,  with a very high price! 

Live fresh seafood display in Boat Quay

Share with you the different seafood available there :) 

So if happen you come and visit Singapore,  don't forget to go and visit the area. Not necessary to go the to eat,  but you can feel a different environment :)

My lunch time is over now. Gotta going back to work :) Hope you visually enjoy the photos above ^^

Monday, November 04, 2013

Bhutan trip day 6 - Tue, 10 Sep 2013 - Journey to Haa Day 1

Other than Gelephu and Bumthang, Haa was another place that I first time visited in Bhutan during my second trip there. We departed from Motithang at 9am by car. Riku's best friend, Pema, with his friend, Dago, came and fetched us. Four of us went together. It was nice Tuesday morning, when Thimphu Dromche was held.

View of Tashichho Dzong from Zilukha Road

Actually, we could visit the Tashichho Dzong at the midnight before, but Riku and I had an evening walk to Zilukha Road all the way up to the Kissing Point and returned back home tiredly, plus I was trying Special Courier mixed with apple juice (the way how Bhutanese usually mixed their whiskey with).


Trying Special Courier whiskey with Apple Juice :)

I only heard about it from Riku before and found it weird because usually we mixed whiskey with Coca Cola, Pokka Green Tea, or plain whiskey with ice cube here. So. whenever he said he mixed it with apple juice, I was wondering how the taste would be. And since I was there, why not try it right? ;) Here I went! It turned out that the whiskey was quite strong for me. I drank only two glasses and fell asleep right after that. So, forget about the Dromche... Lolx!!!
 
Lower and higher town of Haa, Bhutan - Pema, Chencho, me and Riku

Haa Dzongkhag was located at the western side of Bhutan, south west part of Paro. It was the smallest Dzongkhag in the country. Although small, it was one of the most beautiful places in the Kingdom, rich with pristine alpine forests and tranquil mountain peaks. Haa was also known as "Hidden-Land Rice Valley". It had the second least population Dzongkhag after Gaza in Bhutan.

Unlike Gelephu in southern Bhutan, which was located near India border, Haa was located nearer to China border. Wow, I only realized now how near I was with these two neighbor countries hehe... No wonder, when I was in Haa, I could see many shops selling Chinese goods. Wow!!!

Before going there, I did a little research about what place to visit. I copied and pasted from travel agent's itinerary and had it as guidelines. I only knew that Riku told me that one of his best friends staying and living there and we had a possibility to go there to meet his friend and stay there for a night or two. This round we were planning to visit for a night, while Pema and Dago drove back to Thimphu at evening time as they had to work during midnight. So both of them were helping and accompanying us on our journey to Haa. Thank you Pema and Dago for your time and effort! :)
 
Roadside seller - selling mostly apples, cucumber, chili, and some other local vegetables
It's common to see roadside seller like this in Bhutan. Some was with roof provided, while some was using big umbrella to hide themselves from the heat of the sun. It was helpful whenever you felt hungry and needed some bites on apple or cucumber, also to refresh yourself after long-drive.

We passed through mountains, mountains, and more mountains. It was all greenery, filled up my hunger of woods and nature beauties :) Sometimes we stopped at roadside to pee. What I loved about Bhutan, you won't find any difficulty in finding place to release your nature calls. Hehe... It was available almost everywhere. What you need was a place to hide, behind trees and bushes or even stones, and Voila!! There you were!!! You didn't even need an umbrella. Just like that!! Haha... Loving it!! At the same time we helped and contributed to fertilize the soil naturally hehe...

Dogar Dobji Dzong
At an altitude of 6600 feet, we passed by Dogar Dobji Dzong, which was believed to be the first model of a Dzong in Bhutan. Built in year 1531 by Ngawang Chhogyal, the brother of Buddhist Saint, Drukpa Kunley (known as Divine Madman). Later on the Dzong and all its surroundings were destroyed in an earthquake of great magnitude; with the exception of the centre tower which by popular belief, survived, because of a sacred Terma (the statue of Guru Langdarchen), housed in the top floor of the Dzong. Riku asked me to capture the Dzong photo as he said that there was a Bhutanese movie made in this Dzong, but I forgot the title of the movie that he mentioned.

While Dago was driving, I took a look at outside view through the car window, enjoyed the view non-stop and felt the breeze of fresh air from the outside. Sometimes I could smell doma too from inside the car hahaha... It's typical smell in Bhutan no?? In between we were having different type of snacks inside the car, such as local fried potato chips - one plain, another one with chilli - plus crunchy spicy peanuts that I bought from Indonesia.

Beautiful view on the way to Haa
We stopped by for a while to capture the beautiful view above and take photos together with the prayer flags. The view behind was magnificent. And since the road was so quiet (I noticed that there were not many cars going through this way), suddenly I had this thought of asking them to take the 'Jump' photo in the middle of the road :) To be frank, I was quite impressed with the quiet road in Bhutan. It felt like the road was belong to you as nobody else used it. Therefore, you could take photo in any way you wanted to do, like sitting down, lying down, etc. :D

Jump pose 1 by Riku, Dago and Pema

Jump pose 2 by Riku, me and Pema
Tell you, it was so fun!!! For a while, we forgot about our stress at work and home. We were just concentrating on how to jump together and resulting in nice photo as we couldn't afford to jump over and over again as it was tiring la! Hahaha..... Nice pictures right? Especially we were in the middle of the road with mountains and pine trees as background :)

Nice road view with Bhutanese school children and elderly :)

We continued our journey. In front, we saw group of local farmers beating their harvest in the middle of the road. They purposely put the dried wheat just like that and let the vehicles to run on top of it, helping out in beating it. They still had to beat it manually though using some kind of metal rod to hold and another part was made of wood to beat. Dago stopped the vehicle after passing them by and Riku asked us if we wanted to try. Why not? We were there to enjoy and experience no? Hehe.. So, there we went!

Hands-on beating on the harvest with local farmers - on our way to Haa, Bhutan :)
You could see the photos above where all of us hands-on trying to do the job well. The three guys seemed to be very familiar with what they were doing. Unfortunately, not me. Hahaha... You could also see the farmers who were standing behind me, all was laughing at me. Hahahaha.... One of them couldn't resist looking the way I beat and showed her hands asking me to do the right way. Lolx!!! Sorry la, it was really my first time doing that. You were allowed to laugh at me, anyway... hahaha.... It was fun!

Entering beautiful Haa Valley
We stopped by for a while watching people playing archery. Archery was a national sport in Bhutan. Bhutanese enjoyed this sport very much. There were 13 players in the team. They took turn shooting two arrows, first at one direction, then from the opposite direction. When preparing for competition, players were advised not to spend the night with their wives before the competition in order to achieve a high level of concentration.

The teams were said often employ astrologers to select the competing members. These astrologers were often hired at substantial fees so that they could have favorable tsip performances, cast curses against other archers, and gain an upper hand. They were also needed to calculate the time and place for competition (source: wikipedia.org). It's interesting no? :)

After about 3 to 4 hours of journey, we finally entered Haa Valley. We could see many farmers having lunch on the roadside after a tired half day of working at a farm. We were hungry too. Riku had asked his sister to cook two types of curry veggies and rice early in the morning. He forgot to bring his food containers from his office back home so he had to store it in a small plastic container. He also brought the cooked rice together with its pressure cooker. We stopped at roadside planning to have our lunch. However, we had to cancel that because Riku forgot to bring some plates and spoon. No choice, we had to bring the food inside the car and have our lunch in Haa :D

In the photo above (top left), you could see the three mountains located in a row, next to each other, called as Three Brother Hills, also called Miri Phunsum. We passed through the helipad where helicopter could land in case of emergency (Only about a week before, on 2nd September 2013, there were 8 Bhutanese soldiers killed and 10 more injured in explosion while disposing the old ammunition in Haa, which required those injured ones to be transported by helicopter to Thimphu to get treated). We also passed through the Indian army base and military camp.

Atsara outside Lhakhang Karpo or White Lhakhang in Haa
We fetched Riku's best friend, Chencho, who was working as government officer, in White Lhakhang or Lhakhang Karpo. He just finished rehearsing for the upcoming Haa Festival. Just nice, there was an Atsara coming nearby our vehicle and we managed to take close-up photo of his mask and together with one of his secret weapons :D

Day spent in Haa - played Carom, visited Haa Wangchuklo Dzong

Five of us went to Chencho's house, settled down, and finally had our lunch there hehehe... He lived with his father. It was quite big house for both of them, with 2 bedrooms, 1 toilet and 1 kitchen.We had our lunch in living room while watching TV. All of us was very hungry already. Haha... Btw Chencho just bought a pair of new traditional Bhutanese hand embroidered shoes or called Tsholham. He bought it as he had to wear it on the upcoming Haa Festival. It was beautiful ya! I tried it there and fitted my feet nicely. It was comfortable too, but I heard it didn't come cheap. It was meant for guy though hehehe...

On our way to Damthang, Haa, Bhutan

After lunch, we went out. We drove all the way to Damthang. It was about 15 km long from higher town. The view there was amazing!! It was mountains fulls of pine trees, decorated with spiral rivers, Bhutanese neat buildings, etc. I loved it so much! The air was cold too. If I could stay longer, I would hehehe.. Perhaps everyday I would just wonder around the area, walking or running, cycling, and just embrace the natures surround me :) We saw group of Bhutanese/Indian army training their physics too by running through the mountain road.

Damthang Lower Secondary School, Haa, Bhutan

We could only stop nearby the Damthang Lower Secondary School and were not allowed to go further as it was  restricted area. There were school children playing there. See their playground on the photo above. It was all made manually using wood and rope, so simple yet it could make children happy playing with it. What a simple life of Bhutan!!! In Singapore, children was pampered with good quality and colorful slides, ladders in almost every neighborhood area. Our lives were really different!

On our way back it was raining. The weather got even colder. But when we reached back to Haa town, the rain stopped. We stopped by at higher town as Chencho wanted us to taste Hoendey, the Haa specialty dumpling - deep fried and steamed. Nyummy!!! I loved it! It consisted of 12 different type of local vegetables grown in Haa. Btw, Bhutanese ate their dumplings served with chilli. As for us, we usually dipped our dumplings with Chinese black vinegar and sliced ginger, equally nyummy too.. hehehe.. But I could eat chilli and loved spicy food, so I could eat their dumplings that way :)

Visited National Center for Riverine & Lake Fisheries in Haa, Bhutan
Once filled up our stomach, we visited the fisheries, a place where trout fishes were hatched - called Trout Hatchery. It's interesting though that the place was meant only to grow the fish, but not to sell, kill and eat as it was as opposing to the Buddhist teaching. There, Karma Wangchuk, the Livestock Production Officer,, explained to us the three different trouts that they hatched over there, which were Brown trout (Salmo trutta) ,was first introduced in 1930; Snow trout - the native fish of Bhutan; and Rainbow trout - had not been released into the river yet, just confined inside the premises of the center.

From the photos, you could see two different type of places to hatch the fishes. The photo in middle left was also the small pond where fishes were hatched. Looked more naturally. Interesting place. Thank you Karma for explaining the fish history to us!!! It was great meeting you there too!

After that we visited the Haa Wangchuklo Dzong for a while, then to a place where Chencho and other young Bhutanese loved to visit to pass their time by playing snooker and carom. The place was called Hotel Two Sister. There was a small bar too with TV where people could sit there drinking and watching football, etc. I played the carom for the first time together with them. Hahaha... As expected, I was quite lousy on that and kept saying "Aduh!!", an expression (in Indonesian) that you said when you failed to put the thing into the hole kekeke...

From there, we separated with Pema and Dago.They went back to Thimphu. Riku, Chencho and I went back home to take a rest. In evening, Chencho cooked Haa arra mixed with fried butter and egg for me to try because I told him I hadn't tasted it before and wanted to know how Bhutanese usually drank.

Hoendey and local arra from Haa :)
He showed the process of cooking the arra to me in his kitchen. Now, I knew how to do and even cooked it myself back home in Singapore hehe... Thank you Chencho for your valuable teaching!! We drank it before taking our dinner. It was cold night and we were quite tired. We went to sleep early at about 9pm plus. It had been a long day and the thick blanket had kept me from the cold air. Hmm... so comfortable!! Loved the feeling :)

Haa journey - to be continued here.

Saturday, November 02, 2013

Money

No matter how small or how big
It does a lot to all human being

Money quote - Source: Lifehack Quotes
It can act as form of love and compassion (donate to those who need it),
greed and hate (pay someone to harm the person you hate),
bring happiness (buy a small lollipop can make a child smile),
bring sadness (when you deprive of it).

Cute kid in Haa, Bhutan, asked for Lollipop - and rejected money :)
It can control people,
it can change people.
 The saddest thing about money is,
it can break the long term friendship and relationship.

 “He who loses money, loses much; He who loses a friend, loses much more; He who loses faith, loses all.”- Eleanor Roosevelt

People can fight for money.
People can steal for money.
People can lie for money.
People can also sell themselves for money.
 
Money quote - Source: Lifehack Quotes

“Money can’t buy happiness, but it will certainly get you a better class of memories.” Ronald Reagan

Money quote - Source: Lifehack Quotes
 How to handle it then???

“Formal education will make you a living; self-education will make you a fortune.” Jim Rohn
Buy what you need, not what you want,
save some for a raining day,
as we'll never know when we'll need it.
“Know what you own, and know why you own it.” – Peter Lynch

Tuesday, October 29, 2013

Then I Saw Her Face by Ngawang Phuntsho

Once holiday was over, I had to adjust my life back to the normal course of life. Other than work, housework at home, busy attending family gathering for about two weeks, finally I could go back to enjoy ‘me’ time by reading books. It could be one at a time, or few at the same time :)

Then I Saw Her Face by Ngawang Phuntsho

I started reading with the light one, “Then I Saw Her Face”, written by Ngawang Phuntsho. He has a Bachelor Degree in English Literature from Sherubtse College and currently works at NGO READ Bhutan as Development Officer. Other than this book, he is also the author of “The Cuckoo and the Pigeon: A collection of folktales from Bhutan”, and a Bhutanese blogger who blogs regularly on social issues. You can read his blog here. Other than that, he also often contributes his writing to Writers Association of Bhutan (WAB) website here.

I knew him only a month (through Facebook) before we finally met up. I had heard about him from the other blogger’s friends. They told me that he was a humble and modest guy, helpful and very good person. He even personally gave the book to me, the day after we met at the Blogger’s meeting in DYS Harmony Village in Thimphu. Read about our meeting here.

We met for a first time not during blogger’s meeting though hehe.. When I was in Thimphu’s bus station (waiting for our bus to Gelephu to depart), I saw him walking past and carrying goods. That time I was sitting inside my bus. When Riku came, I told him that I saw Ngawang, but I was unsure if it was really him. Then he walked and carried the goods again for the second time. Riku saw him and told me that it was really him. Riku then walked towards him and not long after that, both of them came to the bus where I sat, and we started to introduce ourselves to each other. That was how I met Ngawang for the very first time :)

We met again for the third time only a day after the Blogger’s meeting, which was also my last day spent in Thimphu. He fetched me in Changangkha Lhakhang (after I’d done with my prayer) and he drove me to town. I told him that I wanted to buy some Bhutanese handmade gifts/souvenirs to bring back to Singapore. Despite a very hot sun he was patiently walking, accompanying me through the whole stretch of road where Bhutanese handicrafts were sold (opposite of Taj Mahal Hotel). He was also helping me to bargain the price with the seller hehe…

Dreams Quote :)

While shopping, he shared with me his future dreams and aspirations, which were to continue further study, to have a stable source of income by opening shop run by his wife, so that he can fully concentrate to help Bhutanese who are poor and in needs (especially those who stay in rural and isolated area of Bhutan) – by bridging those who has more and who doesn’t have anything at all. It is truly inspiring Ngawang!! Hope you can fulfill your dreams and wishes soon!! Wish you all the best from me :)

Once I bought what I needed, he dropped me in front of the Druk Hotel and that was when we met for the last time. At the same time, he gave me this book, and other two children books, meant for my son to read. Thank you Ngawang for the books, especially for your time and hospitality given although it was only a short time! I appreciate it very much :)

I finished reading his book weeks ago; however, I wasn’t good at reviewing book. So I would only give whatever impression that I had after reading the book.

“Then I Saw Her Face” was a collection of 28 short stories related to Bhutanese way of life. I was exciting when reading it as I wanted to know what kind of story that the author would write and share to the readers and what kind of ending he gave in each story. Sometimes I was expecting the unexpected to come. It was thrilling for me hehe…

It was my first time to read the Bhutanese short stories compiled in a book, reminding me of my teenager’s time when I used to read Indonesian’s short stories, mostly from magazine. Somehow, I was expecting what kind of stories that related to Bhutanese cultures that made it special and different from other part of the world’s cultures’ and beliefs’ stories.

It was short but refreshing. While some stories carried a lesson to learn – True Gift, some described different type of experience faced by people there in the story – The Call of Nature. Some was funny too – Philanthropists. It brought you to Bhutan atmospheres for a while, imagining if you were there and experienced the story yourself there.

Overall, it was good writing Ngawang!!! Hope you can continue writing and bring more fresh stories for Bhutanese and us (overseas readers) to read :)
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