Life is fragile

911, Tsunami, Bali bombing, and many other occasions... Our lives are getting fragile from year to year. I've just been thinking on how should I continue my life..

What you have today, may be gone tomorrow..

That's why some of us may think to just live for today and what the hell of tomorrow. Who cares?? If I'm gone, so let me go. But they never think of the other people who love and care them very much. 

They continue smoking, drinking, etc., thinking that anyway once I'm gone, I would leave all my troubles too. You see, so many people take care of their health. They were dieting and doing lots of sports but at the end they still died because of accident, bombing, or even got sick then die.

If you are one of them who think like that the you'd better do some reflection! Otherwise I'll be the one who think the same way too.

Why should I maintain this marriage? What's the meaning of being married? Find someone u love? Having children? Then what? Anyway, if your partner doesn't care about what you feel, why should you care so much about them??? Why should you love your partner too much where at the end you cried like hell when he's gone, while he didn't even care on what you feel?? 

So, how if I say, what's the meaning of marriage anymore if you think like that?? Then, why don't I find someone else who could understand me, love me, care about me and I don't need to bother about how you feel too?? Anyway, when you re gone, at least there is someone who accompany me still hehehe... What a selfish thinking!!! :P

Well, whose faults? If you didn't think like that at the first place, should I think more about what I felt???

Life is really fragile.. but at the end.. seems like "What is tomorrow like??", "How long more should we live?" We'll never know. "How we die??", "Where will we die?" It 's all a secret from above. When we're gone.. then we're gone..

The morale of the story is..

Why should you study hard, if tomorrow is uncertain. You may just die a day before your graduation day and at the end all your effort would go to the drain hahaha.. :P

Why should you work so hard, if tomorrow is uncertain. You may just get stroke and can't move any single part of your body. You might have a lot of money but you can't even enjoy it.

Why should you maintain your marriage, be loyal to your spouse, where at the end your spouse just left you like that and leave you alone. Oops.. with your children too??

Why should you diet and exercise so hard, if tomorrow is uncertain. The plane that you take may just be exploded by terrorists tomorrow. Your resistant towards chocolates, cakes, steak, were useless hahaha....

Then??? Why should we do???

Live for today! For the one you love. Tell them that you love them very much and be lucky of having known them in this world. If I can't love you tomorrow, I will love you today no matter what happens.

Be grateful with what you have. There are many people out there who live with so much suffering. Don't have food to eat, cloth to wear, shelter to live.

Do things to help others and live your life to the fullest each and everyday!!!

Hullo

 

This Tuesday my friend from Taiwan came here on business trip. She was staying with her boss in one of the most beautiful hotels in the country. We managed to meet up together with other school friends on Wednesday and we had dinner and drink together in one of the pubs in Esplanade. It was nice. We had finger foods, drank cold beer, and chit chatted at the same time. The night was wrapped out by having lo hei at my home... huehehe.. Thanks for joining guys!!!

Supposed to meet them again on Thursday, but I couldn't. So sorry... Yesterday she went back already. Wah, yesterday so many people were flying out. Ching went to Aussie. My friend, S, went back to London.. *really envy them as I wanna go there too but it was too expensive hahaha.. My cousin, Pao, went back to Aussie too for study. Hm....

Just having my late brunch and now waiting for my hubby. We will have sushi for dinner later. Hope my wish come true hahahaha... :P

Have a great weekend all of you!!!

Happy Valentine's Day!!!

Valentine's roses

Today is Valentine's Day!!! 

But everyday is valentine's day for me n my hubby :) But funny.. Just now I received a bucket of roses, which I thought my hubby sent it secretly. But he told me that it wasn't him who sent it Huaaa??? Then who? There is no name inside the card. And now I'm just wondering who was the person who sent it to me?

I think my husband was a little bit furious knowing that there was someone who sent me this bucket of flowers. But at least, this could let him know that although I've been married, there was still someone out there who was interesting in me :P huahahaha.. Just kidding honey.. 

In case you read it, I really don't know who sent it. So please, don't mad at me, ok? He asked me, which friends knowing my address and phone no??? Hm... lots of my friends know it. Hey Ching, you know my address right? My phone number too right? Who knows it was a girl who sent it to me??? But still don't know who.

Anyway, I still have to thank the sender. But at the same time, I scared my husband keep pestering me leh.., asking me who was the secret admirer :D

The flowers are very nice and beautiful. Hm.. when was the last time I got roses?? Let me think...

Back in my school last time, where every Valentine's day there would be classmates or whoever bought those roses and the roses will be distributed inside the class. During 3.5 years in school, I think I received the most flowers when I was at the last year there. 

On first year if I didn't remember wrongly, I received one, which was given by my best friend because he pitied me that nobody bought me one huahahahahaha... 

On second year,  I think I received nothing. I couldn't really remember. 

Then on my last year there, my best friend F helped my ex to buy roses for me, which was quite a surprise because he had left a hand made card in my pigeon hole. Anyway, it was a history.

And now I want to enjoy the flowers.... huehehehehehehehe.. Thanks to whoever the sender and Happy Valentine's Day all!!!

P.S: Eventually, I knew who the sender was. Thank you for the flowers! I appreciate it very much!!!

Cycling at nite

 
Yesterday night after dinner my hubby fetched my bro n his families back to his house and I rode bicycle from our home to their house, alone.. huehehehehehe....

Well.. I didn't know how to use the gear so I anyhow turned the gear here and there. As a result, just after 1 km cycling, the chain had loosen to the other side haha.. Luckily I managed putting it back to the right place and continued cycling.

I listened to my hp radio while cycling to reduce fear of being alone. Not bad. The road here was considered very good because they always have this continuous path for cycle rider (and pedestrian too..).

At night time it was windy and had less car and less people. I only scared if someone had intention to steal the bicycle, or hand phone, or even having other bad intention (*touch wood...) The rest was fun, especially when the road was going down hehehe...

It was so fun until the pedal on the right side had broken and I had to stop because of that. Huaa... It almost reached my brother's house you know... So, I had to call my husband to fetch me back home huahahaa...

It was my first experience to ride this far. Hm.. I was sure there would be a second, third, etc. Hehe..

This morning I supposed to wake up at 5.30 am and ride it again but I was so lazy leh, hahaha... I felt better when I slept. Lolx! I continued sleeping until 10 am and had my breakfast.. hauhahahahha... Walao lehhh...

Niceeee....

We went to my hubby's buddy's house tonite.. Not too far away from our house, but not too near as well.. My hubby drove there.. we visited his friend, as well his friend's sister and mother. The house got an aquarium with salted water.. The fishes are very nice, especially the coral.. very lively and colorful. My husband has dreamt of having this type of aquarium since long time ago.. but i dont think he could manage it and it costs very expensive to maintain it. His aquarium is not bad too.. A pair of lobster had given birth to lots of other lobsters which have grown up now. He has transferred some other fishes to the same tank too.. so that he could get rid of another fist tank..hehehe... Btw, my sis in law is getting married soon this end of month, so she will occupy the room and we need some space to put this computer.. That's why my hubby wanna move out one of the tanks from the living room. When talking about aquarium and fish, my hubby could chat for longgg hour with his buddy's mum.. hihihi.. same hobby.. Then we went out for eating.. I ate prata.. very nice.. crispy and not too oily.. On the way back, I decided to ride bicycle myself while my hubby was driving back home with my son.. Waaa... it's been sooo long that i hadn't riden any bicycle.. I guess... since I left China??? 7 years ago... wow... huehehe.. So, my hubby was worrying that I 'd ride it alone at nite.. But I assured him that everything is alrite.. and I made it!! It really nice.. well.. worry a bit cos I must adapt with the bicycle.. and the road.. but it's ok.. So.. I decided to ride it again anytime soon.. maybe once a week on Sunday morning?? (If I could get up.. heuehehhe...).
Hao le... write till here... ciao